The flirting phase with messages can be exciting and interesting until you see the most annoying message: 'Seen'. You start to think what went wrong, will you talk anymore etc etc. Before you think about everything in two seconds, consider a few things:
1. In general, it means that you are not a priority for that period
But do not be alarmed. "That period" can also mean "within this minute, hour", maybe even days. In some cases it is simply a matter of priorities, in others it is just the moment.
2. Reread your message to see if it really needs a response?
Sometimes there is no answer because the conversation came to an end or your message was a bit vague. Do not take it with too much stress. If they are interested, they will find a reason to write to you again.
3. Be patient
Do not come to a direct conclusion like "he / she does not care", "he / she is always too busy for me" etc. And do not write 2-3 times in a row if you do not receive an answer. Respect boundaries and just be patient.
4. "Continue your life"
As tempting as it may be to cling to a "seen", try not to think of it as the end of a relationship. When you are constantly waiting for someone, you start to lose yourself. Moreover, the loss is ultimately theirs;)
5. Ask yourself if this has happened often
If you see that from time to time this person does not answer you, stop for a moment and think: Is it really worth wasting your time?
Source: Cosmopolitan
