Learning how to have good intimacy with your partner is easier than you think. And not only is it easy, it can also be incredibly fun, if you follow some of these simple tips.
Here are 3 "crazy" but extremely effective tips for a better intimate life:
1. Good communication
I know, it sounds cliché, like those self-help "gurus" who talk about "effective communication," but the truth is that open communication with your partner is essential for a satisfying intimate life.
Talk to him. Find out what he likes, what he doesn't like, and what he's indifferent to. And the same goes for you, make it clear what turns you on and what doesn't. There's no need to have a long, serious conversation about it.
A much more effective way is to talk about these things when you're in an intimate moment.
Be direct and vocal about what you like: "Keep it up, I really like it" or "Touch me there, it drives me crazy!" And don't forget to make it clear when you don't like something, so he learns what to avoid.
2. Try new things
It's good to have a few "safe moves" that you know work for him. But if you use the same ones every time, after a while they'll get boring. The best way to keep the passion alive is to have a wide "repertoire" of moves and experiences.
Yes, you're probably thinking: "Okay, but where can I learn new things?" Don't worry, there are plenty of ways.
Dirty talk is another way that can greatly increase the pleasure. You don't have to be super bold. Even just being a little louder than usual, or saying simple words like: "Don't stop..."
Talking about what you like not only increases desire, but also feeds your partner's ego, and this can be very exciting for both of you. Just be careful not to overdo it, because it can seem forced.
3. Know yourself
Intimacy isn't just about him. It's just as important that you enjoy yourself and feel good during the act. The best way to achieve this is to explore your body and figure out what really turns you on.
It doesn't have to happen with your partner around. It's often easier when you're alone, without pressure, just you and yourself.
Once you figure out what you like, you can tell him, so he can then incorporate it into your experiences as a couple.
